How does one succeed in life?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

That's it for today.

What should I do? I'm 17 and I'm dating a 23-year-old guy.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

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Ask yourself:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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What I need from you?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Isn't it a turn on to have sex with a girl in a skirt or in a tight spandex?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Is using tech to track or monitor your partner’s activities a sign of love, insecurity, or control?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Why don't we hear our own snoring?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What are some things that children used to wait for, but are no longer common in today's society?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Making more friends is a goal.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.